20 August 2010

Born with a Purpose!

On the 17th of August 1994 a little boy, CJ Lues, was born. 


By the grace of God he was born naturally and not by caesarian. When thinking back, with the knowledge I have now, I can hardly believe that his birth didn’t end in a caesarian!  But it was meant to be. This tiny baby opening my womb for so many to come after him.
He was a strong little baby, he nursed like a pro and introduced me to the world of motherhood, in a delightful way. 


Then at 15 months the calling on his live began, but I didn’t know that then (my vocabulary didn’t include a Godly calling) and we only experienced the pain and hardship at the time.


He was due for his 15 months vaccination.  A few weeks before his vaccination we decided to move to Cape Town.  Christo was already in Cape Town to start our new business and CJ and I stayed to sell our house. I took into account how sick CJ became after vaccinations and the fact that I would be without any support in a new City, I decided to give him his vaccination at the familiar clinic in Bloemfontein. This meant that my mother and mother-in-law could help me take care of my sick baby the 48 hours after the shot.

But this time CJ didn’t recover after 48 hours, he only become weaker and weaker.  After a few days of trying to keep his fever down and feeding my restless, coughing baby, I visit the family pediatrician.  He immediately admit CJ to hospital.He feared that CJ may have meningitis and gave orders to get me out of the room and my baby ready for a lumper puncture.  I will never forget my anxiety, my mother-in-law holding me to prevent me from rushing into the examining room, grabbing my babyand run away!  His cries were more than I could handle as a young 25 year old mother, with my husband a 1000km away!  That night my mother-in-law and I slept next to his bed and the next day I took him home.  There was ‘nothing’ wrong with my baby. The pediatrician diagnosed him with “longing for his dad”. We immediately made arrangements for the two of us to move down to my husband,  leaving our house in the hands of the estate agent. God was so good, the weekend we left Bloemfontein our house sold.
In the Cape, our baby son didn’t recover as expected!  For months I visited the spacious  luxurious consultation rooms of one irritated, impatient pediatrician after another, complaining they could not examine a baby who started crying the minute he enter a doctors room. What would you expect from a little boy whose first encounter with a pediatrician was a lumber puncture without his mother, since she was forbidden to hold him.  I left every pediatric visit with a prescription for antibiotics and NO explanation of why my baby had  tonsillitis every two weeks and a chronic cough. 

Finally a pediatrician suggested allergy tests. This time it was me who needed to hold down my little boy on a hospital bed, while they pricked countless wholes in his back ‘testing‘ him for allergies.  I was to  stupid to know that you cannot do accurate allergy tests on a child younger than 5 years old! For days I had to wait for the results and when the pediatrician eventually called, he  informed me that the tests didn’t show anything. What he said next, literally crashed my spirit.  He said that he cannot do anything for my son, I need to find out by myself what was wrong!!
I looked at my 18month old son, who just finished another 3day course of antibiotics a week ago and realized I need Godly intervention or my son was going to die in front of my eyes! The rest of the day I prayed! The next day as I  entered the centre in which my husband had his men’s gift shop at that stage, when my attention was drawn to the health shop I passed every time I paid my husband a visit.  I just knew God sent me. Before I could stop myself, I walked into the health shop and asked for the name of a homeopath. Shocked with my own actions, I walked out of the health shop with the business card of a local homeopath.
At home, I walked straight to the telephone and fell in the chair next to it.  For what felt like hours I just stared at the business card. My husband and I grew up in very conservative religious homes and consulting a homeopath was totally foreign for me. But I was desperate. I just had to try the Homeopath as a last option.
The very friendly health shop assistant informed me that the homeopath  was very busy and I would most probably not be able to get an appointment in the next month. I could not wait that long, CJ’s cough was already getting worse.  So I prayed and asked God, since I was not very comfortable with the idea of a homeopath due to my’
ignorance, I would know He approved if I could get an appointment before the end of the week - it was Wednesday.  Then I made the call.  You can imagine the overwhelming joy when the receptionist inform me: “ They just got a cancellation for Friday...”
The first appointment was such an eye-opener.  My homeopath immediately won my confidence and over the next 6 months he changed our lives.  He diagnosed CJ with chronic whooping cough and started boosting his immune system and treating his condition. 


Over a period of 6 months he also gradually took us off yeast, sugar and diary products.  Still it took CJ 2 years to totally recover from his 15 month against whooping cough vaccination. 


As a bonus Christo got rid of his sinusitis and lost about 10 kg.  I had two miscarriages during this time, our homeopath treated me for candida and since 1997 I hadn’t had candida or a miscarriage!
In the meantime we got crucified by our conservative church and family for being involved in homeopathy and its evil roots.  Christo being an electronic engineer, understanding electronics and fault finding, studied homeopathy over a period of two years. During this time God amazingly guided us and even gave us a prophesy of teaching and healing His people.
When CJ turned 6years old, we closed the doors of our men’s gift shop and started our health shop.  Over the past ten years, thousands of people’s lives have been changed, improved and saved thanks to our experience with CJ.
  
Thanks to CJ not one of his siblings received any vaccinations.


Thanks to CJ we can teach parents about the health risks in giving vaccinations, such as autism. If we finished CJ’s vaccinations and gave him the 18month MMR shot, CJ would definitely have been autistic.
Thanks to CJ we’re not using any modern medicine with all its terrible side effects.
Thanks to CJ we totally changed our life style and daily give our family the priceless gift of health.
The little boy who has turned 16 a couple of days ago, were used by God with a purpose, when he was only a few months old.  


Today he is a young man, with a God given life stretching out before him.


He knows there is a calling on his life, he knows his purpose is to give glory to God in everything and he knows he will need to make some sacrifices to walk in his purpose, but he doesn’t hesitate one-second. This is why he was created by His Creator.
Today we are still periodically questioned for using homeopathic medicine, but over the years we got anchored in God and His guidance in our life.  I trust Him for wisdom and knowledge. I can still not understand that something with “evil roots” could save my babies life and have an abundant harvest!  In my Bible I don’t read anything about testing something by its roots, only by its fruit! 
On Tuesday it was evident again that the Hand of the Lord is on my son’s life.  A year ago he won the 27th round of Apologia Science Question.  He could choose his prize and received a rocket set, he needed to build the rockets himself before he could launch it. 


Over the past year we just couldn’t find a suitable, safe place to launch the rockets.  Two months ago he started horse riding lessons on a farm 15 km outside Durbanville.  The owner gave him permission to launch the rockets on his farm, which fulfilled all the safety criteria. 

It was so much fun.
Heidi-Mari and I also baked him a cake of his choice out of our Baking book - Strawberry Bavarian Cream Cake.  


We enjoyed every minute assembling this cake. 

For breakfast we surprised him with muesli and yoghurt (which we never have for breakfast - diary is a No-No in our home) and fresh homemade croissants!  

The evening Christo and I, took CJ and Josua (who is turning 10 next Tuesday) out for supper.  Heidi-Mari took excellent care of her three brothers and sister at home.The boys had pizza and lamb shank and strawberry milkshakes.  

After getting back home we watched a boy movie ‘Brave Heart’ (we need the boys to close their eyes for some scenes, but the courage and integrity of William Wallace is what we want our sons to have) and only got to bed 01h00. 

It was truly a memory making day - Thank you Lord!  

Thank you CJ for being such a blessing to us, may God Bless you and guide you in the calling on your life! Love you lots!
With love
Linnie

15 August 2010

A Blog Award!


Last week I got two unexpected blog surprises!

Firstly, Heidi-Mari (my Daughter) who has a crafting blog since December last year, received a blog award.


She has to pass it on to 5 other blogs and she honoured me with the Award!
What a special gift from my daughter: The “Cherry on Top Award” for Back to Ancient Ways!
Those individuals receiving this award, are asked to do 5 things:
1. Thank the person who gave you this award

Dear Heidi-Mari, it is a real honour for me to receive a blog award from my own daughter!  If it wasn’t for you and your siblings I wouldn’t have a blog like the one I have - you make it all possible for me to keep this blog going with real life testimonies!
Thank you so much, I love you lots and lots!

2. Copy the award and put it on your blog


3. List three things which you love about yourself
  1. I love being the person God made me, with my specific personality, my gifts and talents, my strengths and weaknesses.  
  2. I love being my husband’s helpmeet, created with the purpose to fill a need.
  3. I love being the mother of my precious 8 children (hoping for more), they challenge me every day with their specific personalities and needs.

4. Post a picture you love


My whole family together on Table Mountain, Cape Town, South Africa.
CJ (16yrs); Danika (7yrs); Andrew (5yrs); Heidi-Mari (13yrs); Michael (6months); Daniel (2yrs), Christo (my husband for 19yrs); Josua (10yrs); David (3 1/2yrs)
It was such a beautiful, blessed, sunshine winter’s day - totally unexpected for our winter rainfall region.
There was a special for the cable car trip up the mountain - two children free per parent.  Children under 5yrs don’t pay.  Our whole family of 10 went up the mountain and only Christo and I needed to pay.  God is so Good - He always provide for this family and then He even spoil us - just because He can and it brings Him Joy and Honour!
5. Tag 5 people you'd like to give this award to


Marelize is one of my blog friends I just love to meet in person (and God willing we will meet at the end of the year, when they visit Cape Town!) Marelize is a Home Schooling Mother of 4 children and they live on a farm in South Africa.
Marelize thank you for becoming a special, sweet friend, love you lots!
Sonja from ‘n Sagtelandingsplek


Sonja is another blog friend I would love to meet in person and I’m still praying for that to happen.
Sonja is a Home Schooling Mother of 4 children and her youngest was autistic, but through hours of prayer, lots and lots of reading, lifestyle changes, and that is only what I know of, she turned around her little boys life forever!
Sonja I’m so proud to know you and love you lots!
Sally from I Take Joy


Seven years ago I read the first book by Sally Clarkson - Mission of Motherhood.  As a result of reading Mission of Motherhood (over a holiday) I started an encouraging group for mothers and eventually started my blog.
Over the years I’ve read Ministry of Motherhood and Educating the Whole Hearted Child and got inspired and encouraged through these books.
Sally your blog, I Take Joy, continually challenge and inspire me!
Thank you so much!
Kelly from Generation Cedar


The thing I mostly value from Kelly’s blog, Generation Cedar, is her courage to speak the Truth and nothing but the truth!  
Every time she place a blog posting I want o shout YES! 
Thank you Kelly for not being ashamed to speak the truth and be such an inspiration for me and many, many women in the blog world!
Ladyofvirtue from Large Family Mothering


Ladyofvirtue is the mother of 15 Children and I admire her so much!
She is a true inspiration and when she gives practical advice in raising and home schooling her beautiful children, I know I can take it to heart.
Thank you so much for keeping your blog and be a roll model to me and many other women in these deceiving times.
This was so much fun!!
With love
Linnie

11 August 2010

The Good-Bye Kiss at the Door

I recently read this poem in the TEACH magazine (by Lorrie Flem) while my husband was out of town for a few days.  This poem was extra special because of what happened the morning he left.
The day he left he forgot his coat at home. I only discovered it about half an hour after he left and anxiously called him - it is winter in South Africa and he must have his coat. Fortunately he was still in town and just leaving his health shop. He would quickly come to fetch it and asked me to meet him outside to give it to him. Minutes later I heard him stop and quickly went outside with his coat (all the children tailing behind me to give daddy a last goodbye). And there my husband stood with a bunch of flowers! He took his coat, gave me a last kiss goodbye, got in the car and left!

Every moment while he was away, I missed him, but then I looked at the flowers, remember his sweet good-bye kiss, experienced a well of joy in my heart. I had new strength to keep going and most of all looked forward to his hello kiss.  

Dear wife, may this poem inspire you to make every good-bye to your husband (no matter how long he will be away), extra special!
The Good-Bye Kiss at the Door
Author unknown
Her eyes were illumed with a glance of her pride
And her heart with love aglow,
As she softly tripped to her husband's side
When he opened the door to go.
And there in her morning wrapper trim,
While a smile her red lips wore,
She stood on the steps and gave to him
A good-bye kiss at the door.
She turns to her duties with cheerful heart,
For she has not now to learn
That the wife and husband must often part
When the daily bread's to earn;
And there's peace and joy in her gentle breast
As she sews, or sweeps the floor,
And every task is essayed with zest
For the good-bye kiss at the door.
And the husband, striving in life's rough race,
Where there's little time for play,
Has many a glimpse of her smiling face
In his mind through the busy day;
And his look is tender, his eyes are bright
As he cons his ledger o'er,
For he thinks of the welcome that waits at night,
And the good-bye kiss at the door.
O, wives and husbands, the world is bright
When the heart with love doth glow,
And its path is smooth and its burden light
If you're willing to make them so;
And the sun will show through the darkest day,
And scatter the clouds that lower,
And the roses blossom along life's way
For the good-bye kiss at the door. 

With love
Linnie

05 August 2010

International Breastfeeding Week

This week I had the privilege to be a guest blogger at ‘Celebrating International Breastfeeding Week, Joyful Mama Style,’ writing on Nutrition for the Breastfeeding Mother!


I met Joyful Mama through her youngest sister, who happened to be my Babysitter a few years ago!  The younger sister would babysit my children when Christo and I went on our coffee dates and helped the older children put Above Rubies magazines in envelopes.  She was only 19 years old, but loved the Above Rubies magazine and asked me if she could have a few, to give to her sisters - they were four girls!  
A few months later the oldest sister - Joyful Mama, got married and within months she was pregnant!  Through the Above Rubies magazine we become friends and I just love this young woman who is bursting with joy in her roll as a wife and the mother of Sweatpea and Arrow Boy - so far!

With love
Linnie

01 August 2010

Above Rubies, Ballet Costumes and Croissants

Yes, this is what keeps me busy and away from the blogworld!

For almost three weeks 15 boxes of Above Rubies stood in my living room, shouting at me to be put into envelopes and sent to our 600 Above Rubies subscribers in South Africa. 


I was desperately trying to finish Heidi’s birthday dress for her 13th birthday and then we celebrated her 13th birthday!  The little ones didn’t mind having the boxes in their way all the time and were playing house-house underneath the table between all the boxes! 

This past two weekends my wonderful husband and four older children jumped in on the job and managed to put the Above Rubies in envelopes, ready to be posted!


So to all my South African Blog Friends who are subscribed to Above Rubies, you are in for a huge treat and are just going to love this issue!  


You can boil the water so long, get out your favourite tea cup or coffee mug and look forward to curl up in your most comfortable chair with Above Rubies #78! 

And while every one in the house is packing Above Rubies, I’m busy with a huge challenge - making three ballet costumes! 


A ‘Star’, a ‘Pearl’ and a ‘Lost Boy’ for Danika and Heidi-Mari’s Peter Pan ballet concert in September! 


I just love making ballet costumes, but they are quite a challenge, since the costumes create the atmosphere for the concert - and that is what it is all about! 


Again my older children are making it possible for me to sit for hours in front of the sewing machine, 


while they entertain the little ones, meet their needs and even take care of dinners! 


In an attempt to say thank you to my family, I baked them croissants over the weekend!  Heidi-Mari is learning baking skills this year and use an excellent Baking book which teach the technique and skill in such a simple way.  


While studying pastries, we tried our hand at croissants.  In the past I once tried to baked croissants, but it wasn’t very successful. But since we used the Baking book, baking is so satisfying!  


With the illustrated pictures and detailed instructions every recipe is a masterpiece. 


And the croissants was no exception!  My family now wants croissants at least once a week and I enjoy preparing it so much, I may just agree...

With love
Linnie
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